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BIGGEST REGRET IN LIFE

Regret is always coming behind, according to a statistical data of a study that examined the elderly in America mentions there are five biggest regrets they experience in their old age and ninety-two percent of it is “they regret not working hard to achieve all their dreams in their youth” sometimes it’s not other people who destroy our lives, but we have been destroyed because of ourselves and the biggest destroyer is “DOUBT” hesitate to choose, hesitate to move, hesitate to decide, hesitate to act, and finally when we can choose at that time we are already at the end of our age so at the end of our age we already regret it.

All humans will indeed die but so many people die before they die, he can’t be a human that his family can be proud of, he can’t be a father to be a role model for his son, no one told about him even when he dies he will die in quiet state condition and he died with regret, this article is for those of you who are afraid to go out of comfort zone who is afraid of everything that hasn’t happened yet.

Before it’s too late “wake up” and chase all your big dreams, maybe some of you want to send your children to the best school, make your parents proud, have a luxury house, have a luxury car, and so on, what is your biggest dream? there’s nothing wrong with dreaming, indeed not all our dreams can be achieved but without dreams, you are not going anywhere!! What are you afraid of? what makes you doubt? are you afraid to fail? Or are you afraid that theory doesn’t match reality? is that road to success scarier than your success?

Your problem has nothing to do with the dreams you will achieve later, Don’t you know that success must go through failure first, Don’t you know that a true champion has to go through pain when he trains, if you don’t fight then you will never win, know that a reliable sailor is born because he has sailed an ocean full of waves there is no great sailor just leaning on the pier, a great man is born from the difficulties and pain he goes through.

Life is not just a matter of going in the morning and returning in the evening with mediocre income, life is not just paying debts every month it’s static and boring, this life must be proud, this life must be colorful, this life must be quality and this life must be able to share with the others yes this sounds is hard but which one should you choose, it’s hard temporarily because you’re struggling or it’s hard forever because you don’t want to try.

Conquer your fears, defeat your doubts, no one can change your own des unless you are willing to change it, life must be great, don’t want to live like flowing water because all that flows in the water is dirt and dead fish, history is always carved by the winning generation not a generation full of doubts and cowards there is no failure for those who never give up make your family proud, make your religion proud, make your country proud, be the generation of winners if there is one person in this world who can do it, that means we can too, don’t be an ordinary person, be an extraordinary person and may God bless us all. thank you

You Are Good, But You Are Not God

In a world that often pushes us to strive for perfection, it’s easy to fall into the trap of believing that we must be flawless in every aspect of our lives. Whether it’s in our careers, relationships, or personal goals, the pressure to be the best can be overwhelming. Yet, there’s an important lesson to remember: you are good, but you are not God. This distinction can have a profound impact on our well-being and overall happiness.

The Myth of Perfection

From a young age, many of us are taught to aim for perfection. Society often glorifies those who achieve seemingly unattainable standards, leading us to believe that anything less is failure. Social media amplifies this narrative, showcasing curated lives that appear perfect, which can make our own lives feel inadequate in comparison.

However, striving for perfection is a double-edged sword. It can lead to burnout, anxiety, and dissatisfaction. Recognizing that perfection is an illusion can liberate us from these burdens. It’s essential to embrace our imperfections and understand that they make us human.

The Importance of Self-Acceptance

Accepting that you are good—capable, talented, and worthy—without needing to be divine is crucial for mental health. Self-acceptance allows us to acknowledge our strengths while also recognizing our limitations. This balance fosters resilience, as it encourages us to set realistic goals and be kind to ourselves when we stumble.

When we embrace self-acceptance, we open ourselves up to growth. Instead of seeing failure as a reflection of our worth, we can view it as an opportunity to learn and improve. This mindset shift can transform how we approach challenges in our lives.

The Value of Collaboration

In recognizing that we are not infallible, we also come to appreciate the importance of collaboration. No one achieves greatness alone. Whether in business, art, or any other field, the most successful individuals often rely on a support network.

Collaboration encourages us to share ideas, resources, and expertise. It reminds us that while we may be good at what we do, there is always someone who can bring a different perspective or skill set to the table. By working together, we can achieve more than we ever could alone.

Setting Boundaries

Understanding that you are good but not God also means knowing your limits. It’s vital to set boundaries—both for yourself and with others. This includes recognizing when to say no, understanding when to ask for help, and acknowledging when you need a break.

By establishing boundaries, you prioritize your well-being and avoid overcommitting yourself. This approach not only helps you maintain balance but also enhances your ability to contribute meaningfully when you do engage.

Conclusion

“You are good, but you are not God” serves as a powerful reminder of our humanity. It encourages us to embrace our imperfections, practice self-acceptance, and value collaboration. By recognizing our limits and setting healthy boundaries, we can lead more fulfilling lives.

In the end, it’s not about being perfect; it’s about being authentic. Allow yourself the grace to be good, to learn, and to grow—without the weight of unrealistic expectations. Embrace the journey, and remember that you are enough just as you are.

If You Hate Someone Too Much You Will End Up Becoming Their Fan

It’s an interesting thought, but not necessarily true in every case. Sometimes intense emotions like hate can stem from an underlying fascination or admiration, which might eventually manifest as begrudging respect or even admiration. However, there are also situations where hate remains just that—unyielding and unwavering. It really depends on the individuals involved and the dynamics of their relationship.

In the vast spectrum of human emotions, hate stands out as one of the most intense and visceral. It’s a force that can consume individuals, driving them to actions and thoughts they might not have imagined possible. However, amidst this intensity lies a paradoxical phenomenon: the potential for hate to transform into something unexpected, perhaps even admiration.

The Nature of Hate

Hate is a complex emotion, often born from a variety of factors such as fear, jealousy, resentment, or perceived injustice. It can be directed towards individuals, groups, ideologies, or even abstract concepts. At its core, hate is fueled by a profound sense of aversion and animosity, leading to hostile thoughts, words, and actions.

The Seed of Fascination

Interestingly, hidden within the depths of hate can sometimes lie a seed of fascination. This fascination may stem from an acknowledgment of the target’s power, influence, or perceived superiority. In some cases, the very qualities that provoke hatred—such as confidence, success, or charisma—can also evoke a begrudging respect or even admiration.

The Evolution of Emotions

As time passes and circumstances change, the intense flames of hatred may begin to flicker and wane. Exposure to different perspectives, personal growth, or shifts in the dynamics of the relationship can all contribute to this evolution. In some instances, individuals may find themselves experiencing a surprising shift in their emotions—from vehement hatred to a more nuanced and complex array of feelings.

From Hate to Admiration

The journey from hate to admiration is not always straightforward, nor is it guaranteed. However, for some individuals, the gradual erosion of animosity can pave the way for unexpected insights and revelations. They may come to appreciate aspects of the target they previously overlooked or dismissed. This newfound understanding can lead to a begrudging acknowledgment of their strengths, accomplishments, or resilience.

Examples from History and Literature

History and literature abound with examples of individuals who, despite harboring intense hatred initially, eventually developed a begrudging admiration for their adversaries. From rival politicians to literary rivals, these stories serve as testament to the complexity of human emotions and the potential for transformation.

The journey from hate to admiration is a testament to the intricacies of human emotions and relationships. While hate may initially blind individuals to the qualities of their adversaries, it is not immune to change. Through introspection, empathy, and open-mindedness, individuals can transcend the confines of hatred and discover unexpected insights and admiration in the most unlikely of places.

If you hate someone, you get defeated.
Love Your Haters They Are Your Biggest Fans.
If you don’t like me and still watch everything I do, You’re a fan.
When a man learns to love, he must bear the risk of hatred.

To My Baby Girl #elle

To My Baby Girl #elle by josuamarcelc

To My Baby Girl #elle

To My Baby Girl…. from the moment you came into this world, you’ve been my greatest joy, my little princess, and the light of my life. I want you to know that as your father, I will always be here for you just like I promised the day you were born. you are my precious treasure and I will forever be your protector, your guide, and your biggest fan. As you navigate the journey of life, please remember that my love for you is unending and unconditional. I will shield you from the storms, lift you when you fall, and stand by your side through every challenge that comes your way. your dreams are my dreams. your happiness is my mission and your well being is my top priority. You are growing into an amazing young woman and I am so proud of the person you are becoming. I believe in your strength, your intelligence, and your ability to achieve anything you set your heart on. As you spread your wings and explorer the world, know that I will always be your safe haven, your rock and your loving father.
– Anon –

Lighting Up the Stars – 人生大事

Life is like a book.

Each one has to reach the last page somehow.

In some books, there’s a full stop at the very end.

In others, there’s only an ellipsis.

In life, nothing is bigger than death itself.

Fame, wealth, all smoke and mirrors.

One who does our line of work for a living

must have the heart of a saint.

UP SKY – 上天堂

My children, sooner or later, this day would come, so I’ve prepared a letter for you two.

You shouldn’t feel sad about my passing. Everyone has to face this inevitability.

I’ll leave the funeral arrangements to you.

Don’t give me that big ceremony crap. I’ve seen enough of that in my lifetime.

I want to leave this world clean and pure. Just like how I came into this world.

Keep the spending low and remember this. I’m watching you.

I’d like a customized funeral that’s both dignified and inexpensive.

Instead of splashing on a ceremonial casket,

I’d rather you spend the money on a family feast.

After the cremation, put me in that can.

And the dispatching of my remains, I’ll leave that to you.

Think of this as a test from your dad.

If you can’t think of an answer, I’ll just stay in the can and going nowhere.

Tommy Shelby “You Cross The Line” Alfie Solomons – Peaky Blinders

In the Peaky Blinders season 3 finale, Tommy confronts Alfie for betraying him and indirectly causing his son’s kidnapping. Alfie gets angry at Tommy for saying he crossed the line, retorting:

I don’t give a fuck right now kid. Alright. I do not want him to spare me because of some fucking peace pact. I want him to acknowledge, that his anger is un-fucking-justified. I want him to acknowledge, that he who fights by the sword, he fucking dies by it Tommy. So what, they took your boy did they? Yeah? They got your boy? And what fucking line am I supposed to have crossed? How many fathers, right, how many sons, yeah, have you cut, killed, murdered, fucking butchered, innocent and guilty and sent them straight to fucking hell ain’ ya? Just like me! You fucking stand there. You judging me, stand there, and talk to me about crossing some fucking line? If you pull that trigger, right, you pull that trigger for a fucking honourable reason. Like an honourable man. Not like some fucking civilian, that does not understand the wicked way of our world mate.
Alfie Solomons – Peaky Blinders

Tommy Shelby – You Cross The Line – Alfie Solomons by josuamarcelc

Ada Orang Yang Tidak Cocok Berbisnis / Bekerja Karena Hanya Merugikan Orang Lain

Ada orang yang saya kenal adalah individu yang sangat rakus akan uang dan mungkin tidak sepenuhnya memahami nilai kerja keras. Ada orang yang tidak cocok untuk berbisnis atau bekerja karena perilaku atau tindakan mereka hanya merugikan orang lain dan tidak sesuai dengan prinsip-prinsip etika atau moral yang berlaku.

Beberapa alasan mengapa seseorang mungkin tidak cocok untuk berbisnis atau bekerja termasuk:

Tidak Etis: Orang yang terlibat dalam tindakan tidak etis seperti penipuan, manipulasi, atau pencurian dalam bisnis atau pekerjaan mereka dapat merugikan orang lain secara langsung atau tidak langsung. Tindakan tidak etis ini tidak hanya merusak reputasi mereka sendiri tetapi juga dapat merugikan pelanggan, rekan kerja, atau pemegang saham.
Tidak Jujur: Ketidakjujuran dalam bisnis atau pekerjaan, seperti memberikan informasi palsu atau menipu, dapat mengakibatkan kerugian finansial dan reputasi bagi semua pihak yang terlibat. Orang yang tidak jujur tidak cocok untuk berbisnis atau bekerja karena integritas adalah prinsip penting dalam dunia bisnis dan profesi.
Kepentingan Pribadi yang Berlebihan: Orang yang hanya mementingkan diri sendiri dan mengabaikan kepentingan orang lain dapat merugikan rekan kerja, karyawan, atau mitra bisnis. Kepentingan pribadi yang berlebihan seperti nepotisme, korupsi, atau tindakan penyalahgunaan kekuasaan dapat merusak lingkungan kerja dan hubungan bisnis.
Tidak Peduli dengan Dampak Sosial: Individu yang tidak peduli dengan dampak sosial dari tindakan mereka, seperti polusi lingkungan, eksploitasi pekerja, atau praktik bisnis yang merugikan masyarakat, tidak cocok untuk berbisnis atau bekerja karena mereka hanya mengutamakan keuntungan pribadi tanpa memperhitungkan kepentingan yang lebih luas.
Konflik Kepentingan: Orang yang memiliki konflik kepentingan yang tidak diungkapkan atau yang mempengaruhi keputusan bisnis atau profesional mereka dapat merugikan pihak lain yang bergantung pada keputusan tersebut. Konflik kepentingan yang tidak diatasi secara transparan dapat mengakibatkan ketidakpercayaan dan merugikan integritas seseorang.

Ketika seseorang tidak mematuhi prinsip-prinsip etika, kejujuran, dan integritas dalam bisnis atau pekerjaan mereka, hal ini dapat berdampak negatif pada orang lain, masyarakat, dan organisasi yang terlibat. Oleh karena itu, penting untuk memahami nilai-nilai etika dan moral yang penting dalam dunia bisnis dan pekerjaan serta untuk menghindari tindakan yang hanya merugikan orang lain. Organisasi juga perlu memiliki kebijakan dan tindakan yang tepat untuk mengatasi perilaku yang tidak etis atau merugikan.

Di 2024, saya mengerti bahwa semua tidak dapat dibeli oleh uang, dan jika bertemu orang – orang yang hanya ingin mencapai tujuannya demi uang, lebih baik dihindari, karena akan menjadi kanker di masa depan. Kita tidak dapat memperbaiki semua orang, dan waktu kita di dunia ini hanya sebentar. Lebih baik mencari sesuatu yang lebih long lasting.

Berikut adalah ciri-ciri orang yang sangat rakus akan uang dan mungkin tidak sepenuhnya memahami nilai kerja keras:

Rakus akan Uang: Rakus adalah keinginan kuat akan kekayaan, seringkali dengan mengorbankan prinsip etika atau moral. Orang yang sangat rakus akan uang didorong oleh upaya untuk mengumpulkan kekayaan melebihi kebutuhan sebenarnya. Keserakahan berlebihan ini dapat mengarah pada perilaku tidak etis, seperti penipuan, penyelewengan dana, atau eksploitasi orang lain demi keuntungan finansial.
Kurang Memahami Etika Kerja: Beberapa individu yang terlalu fokus pada uang mungkin tidak sepenuhnya memahami konsep etika kerja. Etika kerja melibatkan prinsip-prinsip seperti kerja keras, tanggung jawab, dedikasi, dan komitmen untuk menghasilkan pekerjaan berkualitas tinggi. Orang dengan etika kerja yang kuat memahami pentingnya berusaha dan bekerja keras untuk mencapai kesuksesan finansial.
Keuntungan Jangka Pendek vs. Kesuksesan Jangka Panjang: Individu yang sangat rakus seringkali memprioritaskan keuntungan finansial jangka pendek daripada stabilitas dan kesuksesan finansial jangka panjang. Mereka mungkin terlibat dalam usaha finansial berisiko atau mencari kepuasan instan tanpa mempertimbangkan konsekuensinya atau kebutuhan usaha berkelanjutan.
Dampak pada Hubungan: Keserakahan terhadap uang dapat membebani hubungan pribadi dan profesional. Orang yang hanya fokus pada keuntungan finansial mereka sendiri mungkin mengabaikan kebutuhan dan kesejahteraan orang lain, yang dapat menyebabkan hubungan yang tegang dengan keluarga, teman, dan rekan kerja.
Obsesi Finansial: Individu yang rakus mungkin menjadi terobsesi dengan mengumpulkan kekayaan dan mungkin mengukur harga diri mereka sendiri hanya dengan status finansial. Obsesi ini dapat menyebabkan tingkat stres yang tinggi, kecemasan, dan bahkan masalah kesehatan mental karena mereka terus-menerus mengejar uang lebih banyak.
Kurang Kepuasan: Dengan paradoks, keinginan rakus akan uang mungkin tidak membawa kepuasan atau kebahagiaan yang diharapkan. Orang yang hanya termotivasi oleh kekayaan sering menemukan bahwa begitu mereka mencapai tingkat keberhasilan finansial tertentu, mereka masih merasa hampa atau tidak puas, karena mereka tidak benar-benar menghargai nilai aspek lain dalam kehidupan, seperti hubungan, pertumbuhan pribadi, dan kebahagiaan.
Konsekuensi Hukum dan Etika: Tindakan yang didorong oleh keserakahan dapat berakibat pada konsekuensi hukum dan etika, termasuk masalah hukum, reputasi yang rusak, dan hilangnya kepercayaan dari orang lain. Penipuan finansial atau praktik bisnis yang tidak etis dapat menghasilkan sanksi yang keras.

100 Reasons To Stay Alive

“Reasons to Stay Alive” is indeed a novel written by Matt Haig. It was published in 2015 and is a memoir that explores the author’s personal experiences with depression and anxiety. The book combines Haig’s own journey with mental health issues and insights into how he found reasons to keep living, providing a mix of personal narrative, reflections, and thoughts on mental well-being.

Throughout the book, Matt Haig shares his struggles with mental health and offers a message of hope and resilience. The title suggests that within the challenges and darkness of life, there are reasons to find joy, purpose, and meaning.

It’s important to note that if you or someone you know is struggling with mental health issues, seeking support from mental health professionals, friends, or family is crucial. “Reasons to Stay Alive” is just one person’s perspective, and individual experiences with mental health can vary.

✅ to make your parents proud
✅ to conquer your fears
✅ to see your family again
✅ to see your favorite artist live
✅ to listen to music again
✅ to experience a new culture
✅ to make new friends
✅ to inspire
✅ to have your own children
✅ to adopt your own pet
✅ to make yourself proud
✅ to meet your idols
✅ to laugh until you cry
✅ to feel tears of happiness
✅ to eat your favorite food
✅ to see your siblings grow
✅ to pass school
✅ to get tattoo
✅ to smile until your cheeks hurt
✅ to meet your internet friends
✅ to find someone who loves you like you deserve
✅ to eat ice cream on a hot day
✅ to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
✅ to see untouched snow in the morning
✅ to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
✅ to see stars light up the sky
✅ to read a book that changes your life
✅ to see the flowers in the spring
✅ to see the leaves change from green to brown
✅ to travel abroad
✅ to learn a new language
✅ to learn to draw
✅ to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
✅ Puppy kisses.
✅ Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek).
✅ Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
✅ Trampolines.
✅ Ice cream.
✅ Stargazing.
✅ Cloud watching.
✅ Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets.
✅ Receiving thoughtful gifts.
✅ “I saw this and thought of you.”
✅ The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you.”
✅ The relief you feel after crying.
✅ Sunshine.
✅ The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
✅ Your future wedding.
✅ Your favorite candy bar.
✅ New clothes.
✅ Witty puns.
✅ Really good bread.
✅ Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
✅ Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
✅ The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
✅ The smell before and after it rains
✅ The sound of rain against a rooftop.
✅ The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
✅ The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
✅ Trying out new recipes.
✅ The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
✅ The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
✅ You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
✅ Breakfast in bed.
✅ Getting a middle seat in the movie theater.
✅ Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
✅ Pray (if you are religious)
✅ Forgiveness.
✅ Water balloon fights.
✅ New books by your favorite authors.
✅ Fireflies.
✅ Birthdays.
✅ Realizing that someone loves you.
✅ Spending the day with someone you
✅ Opportunity to create meaningful and lasting relationships.
✅ Potential to learn, grow, and evolve as a person.
✅ Joy and happiness in the little things.
❌ The power to inspire others.
❌ The ability to create art, music, and other forms of self-expression.
❌ To explore different cultures, traditions, and ways of life.
❌ To make a positive impact on the environment and help protect the planet.
✅ Experience the joys of parenthood and raise a family.
✅ Learn new things and develop new skills.
❌ Create a legacy that will outlive you.
✅ Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
✅ Cuddles
✅ Holding hands.
✅ The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
✅ Singing off key with your best friends.
✅ Road trips.
✅ Spontaneous adventures.
✅ The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
✅ The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
✅ Thunderstorms.
✅ Your first (or hundredth) trip to Disneyland.
✅ The taste of your favorite food.
✅ The child-like feeling you get on Christmas morning.
✅ The day when everything finally goes your way.
✅ Compliments and praise.
✅ to look on this moment in 10 years time and realize you did it.
❌ Kill yourself

Ps : Never forget you are a beautiful person 💕 Life is so beautiful so live, live like no one else exist, live for yourself, don’t care of bad people, you are strong, i love you

Arti Kata Caonima Chaonima?

Arti kata dari Caonima adalah Kuda Lumpur Rumput (Hanzi: 草泥马; Pinyin: cǎo ní mǎ) adalah meme Internet Tiongkok dan parodi kuso berdasarkan permainan kata kata-kata kotor Mandarin cào nǐ mā (肏你妈), yang secara harafiah berarti “persetan dengan ibumu”. Source dari Wikipedia

Lee CAO NI MA! PHEI PHEI PHEI by josuamarcelc

Source:
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Sebab, ada yang mengatakan Cào nǐ mā memiliki makna negatif. Kata ini dianggap vulgar, kasar dan tidak sopan karena mengandung unsur umpatan.

Lebih baik belajar yang lebih sopan seperti:

对不起 (duìbùqǐ): Maaf
你好 (nǐ hǎo): Halo.
谢谢 (xièxiè): Terimakasih.
大家好 (dàjiā hǎo): Halo Semuanya.
再见 (zàijiàn): Sampai Jumpa Lagi.

Adapun bahasa slang internet lainnya:

笑死我了（xiào sĭ wǒle) atau XSWL memiliki arti yang sama dengan bahasa Inggris (ROFL/roll on the floor laughing) dimana memiliki arti tertawa ngakak;
装熟 (zhuāng shú) sama dengan istilah SKSD (sok kenal sok dekat);
鸡婆 (jī pó) disebut sebagai kepo/suka ingin mengetahui urusan orang lain;
小鲜肉 (xiǎo xiān ròu) artinya berondong/cowok muda ganteng;
夸张 (kuā zhāng) artinya lebay;
吃土 (chī tǔ) memiliki arti kere atau keuangan terbatas;
吐槽 (tù cáo) memiliki arti membicarakan kelemahan orang lain;
小鲜肉 (xiǎo xiān ròu) memiliki arti yang sebenarnya yaitu ‘daging segar kecil’. Namun saat ini, kata slang Mandarin ini digunakan untuk bintang KPop populer atau bisa juga untuk orang biasa namun memiliki kriteria seperti memiliki umur 12 hingga 25 tahun, berwajah imut, dan tampan.

Five phrases that need to be contemplated to respond to life #JMCmuse

When Facing Hard Time #jmcmuse by josuamarcelc

Whatever you want to control, actually that’s what will control you, when you want nothing more, the world is yours.

你想控制什么，其实它就会控制你，当你什么都不想要的时候，世界就是你的了。

_{Nǐ xiǎng kòngzhì shénme, qíshí tā jiù huì kòngzhì nǐ, dāng nǐ shénme dōu bùxiǎng yào de shíhòu, shìjiè jiùshì nǐ dele.}

Apapun yang ingin kamu kendalikan, sebenarnya itulah yang akan mengendalikanmu, ketika kamu tidak menginginkan apapun lagi, dunia menjadi milikmu.

Meet because there is a debt to pay, part because the debt has been paid. If in the previous life there was no debt, then in this life it will not meet.

见面是因为有债要还，部分是因为债已经还清了。前世若无债，今生不相见。

_{Jiànmiàn shì yīnwèi yǒu zhài yào hái, bùfèn shì yīnwèi zhài yǐjīng huán qīngle. Qiánshì ruò wú zhài, jīnshēng bù xiāng jiàn.}

Bertemu karena ada hutang yang harus dibayar, berpisah karena hutang sudah dilunasi. Jika di kehidupan sebelumnya tidak berhutang, maka di kehidupan ini tidak akan bertemu.

Do not be afraid to lose everything that is lost to you, the truth is not yours. Also don’t be afraid of getting hurt that can hurt you is the test of your life.

不要害怕失去你失去的一切，真相不属于你。也不要害怕受到伤害，伤害你的是你人生的考验。

_{Bùyào hàipà shīqù nǐ shīqù de yīqiè, zhēnxiàng bù shǔyú nǐ. Yě bùyào hàipà shòudào shānghài, shānghài nǐ de shì nǐ rénshēng de kǎoyàn.}

Jangan takut kehilangan semua yang hilang darimu, sejatinya memang bukan milikmu. Juga jangan takut terluka yang bisa melukaimu adalah ujian hidupmu.

Don’t be greedy, you can’t have everything, also don’t be discouraged you can’t have anything. If it’s yours, there’s no need to fight. If it’s not yours, you won’t even get it.

不要贪婪，你不能拥有一切，也不要气馁，你什么也不能拥有。如果是你的，就没必要争了。如果它不是你的，你甚至不会得到它。

_{Bùyào tānlán, nǐ bùnéng yǒngyǒu yīqiè, yě bùyào qìněi, nǐ shénme yě bùnéng yǒngyǒu. Rúguǒ shì nǐ de, jiù méi bìyào zhēngle. Rúguǒ tā bùshì nǐ de, nǐ shènzhì bù huì dédào tā.}

Jangan serakah, kamu tidak mungkin memiliki segalanya, juga jangan berkecil hati kamu tidak mungkin memiliki apapun. Jika memang milikmu, tidak perlu berjuang. Jika bukan milikmu berjuangpun tidak akan dapat.

Some things God does not allow you to succeed in are to protect you. Remember.. ” Gaining is not necessarily a blessing, losing is not necessarily a disaster.”

上帝不允许你成功的一些事情是为了保护你。记住.. “得到未必是福，失去未必是祸”。

_{Shàngdì bù yǔnxǔ nǐ chénggōng de yīxiē shìqíng shì wèile bǎohù nǐ. Jì zhù.. “Dédào wèibì shì fú, shīqù wèibì shì huò”.}

Beberapa hal, Tuhan tidak mengizinkanmu berhasil melakukannya adalah untuk melindungimu. Ingatlah.. “Mendapatkan belum tentu berkah, kehilangan belum tentu bencana.”